Very few
events in anyone's lifetime require as much thought and preparation
as marriage. Consequently people want their proposals to be just right
and perfect - the culminating point in their relationship.
TMen want their women to remember this day for all their lives, and
women also want this day to be a memorable moment in their lives. But
it seems that there are no new ways to get married anymore because virtually
everything has been done. Well, guess again.
"Maria,
will you marry me?"
We can all think of typical ways of asking our lovely girlfriends to
marry us. The man gets down on one knee and gets out a box with a ring
(probably worth a month's salary) before asking her to spend the rest
of her life by his side.
This traditional way of proposing still works, and can be categorized
as the conventional way of asking a woman to marry you. But these days,
women want to be mesmerized with emotion, romanticism and originality.
And not necessarily in that order either.
We give you 12 innovative and traditional ways to get engaged.
1. Can
be called the extreme: If your woman is the sporty type, you
can propose to her from the heights of a mountain after a day of rock
climbing. Other possibilities would be during a parachute jump or a scuba-diving
session in South America, or anywhere else for that matter.
2. Make
a video: Making a personal video of yourself proposing to her
can have a great effect, especially if you are watching it with her.
She will likely jump from joy and want to skip straight to the honeymoon...
3. In
mid-air: A
more public display of affection is to have the captain of an airplane
you are on recite your marriage proposal to your woman
over the intercom. You can just picture it: "We are now flying over
the Grand Canyon and will be arriving at our destination in approximately
45 minutes. And, by the way, Joanna, Michael would like to know if you
would do him the honor of marrying him."
Of course, after
this, all you should hope for is a "yes" and
a safe landing.
4. My
way or the highway: Just imagine driving home from work and seeing a billboard
with the mention "Lucy, will you marry me?" This
will have an amplified effect, and the rest of the commuters who see
it will hope it works out for you.
They will also hope that she doesn't slam the brakes in excitement.
5. Marriage
on the big screen: Let's say you agreed to go see the latest Julia Roberts
movie, and right before the movie is about to start, as
part of the previews, one frame action simply displays the words: "Maria,
will you be my wife?"
6. Raindrops
falling on my head : The popular Canadian Niagara Falls
are a popular location for honeymooners, but few people actually think
of it as a sacred place to ask for your girlfriend's everlasting love.
7. Valentine's
Day surprise: Instead of offering a traditional card,
flowers and chocolates, why not offer her the greatest sign of love by
asking her to marry you? Your girlfriend will then remember this holiday
for the rest of her life.
The only bad part is that it will be hard to surpass this gift every
following year.
8. Indecent
proposal: The ultimate way to ask your woman to marry you
would be during an intense lovemaking session. Popping the question while
bringing her to ecstasy is one of the ultimate thrills for a woman.
Imagine your woman climaxing physically and emotionally. She is not
likely to forget that day anytime soon.
9. The
love police: Although this one requires quite a bit of work and coordination, getting
your girlfriend pulled over by a real cop to
give her a "love ticket" is quite unexpected and very original.
Just make sure any outstanding parking tickets are taken care of beforehand.
10. Happy
birthday to us: Proposing to her on her birthday is another great way
to go about it. And another positive aspect of it, she probably
won't notice that you forgot to get her a birthday present.
11. You've
got love mail: The Internet era is upon us, driving us to
adapt to the technology. So why not send her a love note by email along
with the big question?
This list is by no
means exhaustive. People are coming up with new and innovative ways
to propose every day. Whichever way you choose, remember,
the only thing you have to worry about afterwards is whether or not she'll
say "yes".