The best advice I can give you is to test your ideas in the
actual location under realistic conditions to eliminate
unpleasant surprises. Work with an experienced coach or
wedding consultant if you can, and keep in mind the
following things:

1. THE WIND

Wind can affect many things: the temperature, making it
hotter or colder; the bridesmaids' dresses; everyone's hair;
and whether the ceremony can be heard. Test beforehand. It
can be as simple as moving the tables around a corner, or
across the park to a more sheltered area.

Plan decorations and tablecloths you can anchor
attractively; choose weighted fabrics for the attendants;
warn them about the hair thing; and consider the need for a
sound system and mike clips. If you're renting a tent, make
sure it's wind-worthy.

2. THE COMFORT OF YOUR GUESTS.

Okay, if you're getting married in San Diego, you can count
on perfect conditions, but failing that, your event may be
hotter, wetter, or colder than many guests would prefer.

If you're having a lot of out-of-towners, particularly,
include information about the weather possibilities on an
insert with the invitation along with the accommodation
recommendations. (I went to an outdoor wedding in Dallas in
July; 111 degrees that day, and boy were the people from
Colorado and La Jolla dressed wrong!)

If it's hot, provide iced bottles of water when they arrive,
and hand fans, and if you have a tent, rent fans. If it's
chilly, have a tent, warmers, a hot beverage when they
arrive, and lap blankets.

3. YOU MUST HAVE A PLAN B IN CASE IT POURS DOWN RAIN.

4. HOW TOUGH ARE YOU?

Come on now, if you're at all the fussy type, or prone to
nerves, this simply isn't for you. You'll have to manage
your hair outside, for heaven's sake.

5. THE CALL OF THE WILD.

Inclement weather - or even just ordinary ocean waves and
bird calls - can wreak havoc with still photographs and
videos alike. I recall an amateur wedding video where most
of the sound was the wind whistling around. There may also
be a fountain or waterfall, dogs barking, kids screaming,
birds chirping.

6. DECORATIONS

I've seen even cloth tablecloths blow in the wind, turning
over glasses, candles and centerpieces. Wind, bird poop, the
shades of night falling ... Be xtremely realistic when
planning your decorations. Actually test them outdoors.

7. NATURE RED IN TOOTH AND CLAW.

It's from a poem, okay? but that's where you're going to be.
Don't fantasize about how "romantic" the place is; go take a
look. Think realistically about beer bottles and cans on the
beach; getting the lawn mowed and weeded; planting seasonal
flowers; bugs, flies, snakes and spiders; the sounds of
barking dogs and (uninvited) children; or, for that
matter these days, drugs dealers in the park.

Have a visit with your eyes open. Then do what you need to
do, or resolve it's "good enough" and don't worry. The world
of nature isn't going to shut down just because it's your
wedding.

8. SAFETY ... ALL AGES

You're in love. You're planning your big day. However, you
must limit the things you have to worry about if you're
going to enjoy yourself. A celebration in a park by a lake
would be nice, or by the pool at your aunt's mansion, or
even at the beach, but in actuality, if there are going to
be children there, and drinking, there's also going to be
the chance for a real tragedy.

Which brings up - all ages will likely be there, and must be
considered. Can you really picture your great-grandmother
standing in the surf with her hair blowing, stepping over
man-o-wars while picking sand out of her teeth . for long?
Can the kiddos go that long without a restroom? Many people
can't stand up for a long time; others need protection from
extreme heat and cold.

9. THE FOOD.

Can you say "food poisoning?" Mayonnaise (and food items
with that as an ingredient) can't sit out in the hot sun for
more than an hour or so. Avoid perishable dishes. Wind can
make it hard to get the grill lit. Ice cream won't do when
it's 90 degrees outside, nor will hot hors d'eouvres last
long when it's 50 degrees outside.

10. THE SUN, THE MOON AND THE STARS.

Yes, he promised you that . and you'll be promising it to
your guests, one way or another. Keep in mind the sun moves
through the sky, and plan your event (and the photographs)
accordingly. One of the most beautiful weddings I went to
was held on the deck of a hillside lodge, with the ceremony
ending just as the sun was setting. Now THAT was an
outdoor wedding!

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